The easiest DIY wings ever

Lilou is heavily into dress-up these days. She usually goes out to her playgroups in pink fairy wings, the kind with wires in them. But we recently adopted two puppies, and they’ve been chewing on everything. Goodbye, wings, mangled by playful doggie teeth. Enjoy yourselves in fairy-costume heaven.

Anyway, as Lilou was going to a summer kid’s workshop this morning, some kind of wing was needed for her to feel completely dressed. And so, to the rescue, comes maman with the easiest DIY fairy wings ever!

1. Get a meter of gauzy fabric, bought for P35 (about 0,70€) from Tagbilaran’s BQ department store.

2. Fold in half, lengthwise.

3. Tie twice under toddler’s chin.

4. Give toddler a pinwheel as wand. (“This is my power!” Lilou exclaims in her sometimes strange English.)

5. You’re done.

Told you it’s the easiest.

Posted in Sewing Projects | Tagged , , , | Leave a comment

Still without a yaya

Friends urge us to go on, do it, and there are moments when we are almost convinced to go for it, but something always holds us back. Ladies and gents, we hem and haw and hesitate, and so still do not have a “yaya.” (For non-Filipino readers, that means a full-time nanny for the kids. Many households here employ one.)

Despite all our suddenly million-and-one projects, we are our own bosses, so a yaya seems somehow superfluous. Also this: As this other person prepares our child’s meals, watches her as she takes her walks on the beach, spends playtime with her, and bathes her, we’re scared we’d be missing out on too many moments in Lilou’s life. And she’d be missing out on something too. I grew up practically raised by a succession of yayas, and didn’t like it.

I think that this is how it will go from now on, just the three of us, yaya-free, but with some cheating on the side. With this maman wanting a break from the cooking and cleaning, we have hired a cleaning lady to come in thrice a week! Yehey!

P.S. One thing about having your child with you almost 24/7, you’ve got to be creative about keeping her occupied. Lilou loves to draw, and doubly so when she gets to do it on fabric. The novelty of it, I guess. A recent project is this little family garland, that she’s decided to hang on the back of one of our chairs.

Posted in Life and Stuff | Tagged , , | Leave a comment

Home in browns

I’ve been away twice to Manila in six weeks, and it feels good to be hanging out at home again. Some images:

These tiny fish that the locals call bolinao, tossed in salt, flour, and pepper and then deep-fried, are a hit with Lilou.

Poor giant moth, we found him floating lifeless at sea.

I find it hard to resist these clay stuff you find in the local markets. Here the latest addition to our kitchen , a pitcher.

Another moth, stuck to our child’s gallery of a wall.

Posted in Life and Stuff | Tagged , , | Leave a comment

Manila Pop-Up Shop

It was all planned and organized in the space of a couple of weeks. A whirlwind kind of event that we first told everybody about with this:

Then followed it up with this:

And this:

And this:

Finally we tried to badger everybody with this:

And it worked.

The pop-up shop went well. It was, in fact, wonderful! I was nervous about doing an event in Manila as it had been 10 years since I left the city, but I so felt the love from friends, old and new, who gathered to chat and to shop and to just hang out.

For photos of the event, I made this album in our Facebook page if you’d like to check it out.

And we’re already thinking up the next pop-up. Soon! Like our Facebook page or sign up for our mailing list to be the first to get news of that.

P.S. Manila, I love you.

Posted in Talking Shop | Tagged , , | Leave a comment

How to enjoy life, according to a three-year-old

Posted in Shop Update | Leave a comment

Kora Dandan Albano’s original illustrations

When we got back to the Philippines, one of the first children’s books we bought was “Carancal: Bayaning Isang Dangkal,” written by Rene O. Villanueva. Lilou loved it! That’s why we’re very excited to have right now in La Pomme Kids 13 original illustrations by Kora Dandan Albano, all having appeared in the Carancal series of children’s books.

And, because we’re always curious about creative people, here’s a short Kora Q & A:

1. Why do you draw, Kora? Because I know how to. Because I’m pretty good at it. Because the other option is to do sums. In college I took up Accounting first because my father said I was also good in math. When he passed away I shifted to Fine Arts.

2. How many kids do you have? Are they cranky in the mornings? Two. Nimai is 14 and Sara is 12. No, they are not cranky in the mornings if they had enough sleep. And enough is between 9 and 12 hours.

3. Do your kids read the books you illustrate? Yes. They not only read the books but they also watch me do the illustrations. Sometimes they insist on the colors I should use for a character’s outfit. They also model for me. For example, if I need to draw a left hand holding a fork and I can’t do it from imagination, I ask one of the girls to hold a fork in front of me, and tell her “don’t move” until I finish.

4. How do you steal hours to do your work? My secret is a reliable all-around maid who has been with us for over a decade now. Her name is Wena. She only works for us five days a week. ‘Pag weekend umuuwi siya sa asawa or relatives niya. I think that’s one reason she doesn’t leave us. And good pay, I think.

My other secret is flexibility. When one of the kids was diagnosed with a developmental disorder in 2003 I had to bring her to therapy every weekday morning for two years. I learned to work in the waiting area of the therapy center. While all the other moms were making chika to the max or watching DVDs, I was making illustrations on my lap. ( I used a piece of thin plywood as a makeshift drawing table.) Because of the need to be constantly around my child who could not yet speak at 3.5 years old, I discovered that I can also do illustrations on our dining table which is in the middle of our apartment. No need to shut myself inside a room to “be creative”. I learned to work while the TV set on my left was playing never-ending episodes of Dora and Blue.

Now, my daughter is 12. She graduated from elementary in a regular school last March. She is madaldal and more than OK na, but I still do my illustrations on our dining table out of habit.

5. Why vegetarian cooking? My husband Jimbo who is a vegetarian since he was 19 introduced me to vegetarian eating. When eating out naaliw ako sa kinakain namin, like hummus, mothabal, and falapel sandwiches. I tried whipping them up at home, madali lang pala. When we got married I discovered that Jimbo owned many vegetarian cookbooks. Yung mga recipes na tingin ko magugustuahan ko rin kainin niluto ko. Nasarapan ako, so ayun! Pero hindi naman ako naging strict vegetarian. I still eat meat once in a while. So I’m more of a “flexitarian.” Ha ha, flexibility na naman!

Take a look at all Kora’s illustrations here.

Posted in Shop Update | Tagged , , | Leave a comment

Story Sunday, a free download

Another piece of flash fiction I wrote many years ago. You can download it here. And let’s all relax, it’s Sunday!

Posted in Writing | Tagged , , | Leave a comment

Playhouses

This was the first playhouse Lilou and I made this year, made of a discarded cereal box and popsicle sticks.

The second one we cut and taped from the box our breadmaker came in.

The next one will either be a really big cardboard house that she can use to actually play inside. Or something fabric, inspired by the afternoons we’ve spent in tents cobbled together from blankets strewn on chairs and tables.

Am drawn to the photo below, which I found in The Artful Parent. Something not too structured, whimsical and fun. Let’s see what we come up with…

Posted in Inspiration, Life and Stuff | Tagged , , | Leave a comment

To Anda last weekend

We had heard so much of the beaches of Anda, Bohol, so we decided last weekend to just go. Not much planning, just get in the car and drive the 100-and-so kilometers to it. It was hot though. Very hot.

Plus we sweated extra because we did not bring cash, just a hundred pesos, and we knew they wouldn’t be accepting credit cards where we were going. Husband was convinced there’d be ATM machines along the way. Guess what: There were only a couple of machines, and all operating only on the cards of a local bank we had never heard of. We had to drive all the way to the port town of Jagna to find the one machine that worked for us. Whew! (So, folks, learn from our mistake: If you’re ever going to Anda, get your cash in the main city of Tagbilaran.)

Hot and sticky that we were, we were happy to find, before hitting the town center, a freshwater pool inside a cave they call “Combento.” Convent Cave. Those are the photos you see above.

And what did we do when we finally did get to the Anda town proper? Why hit the beach, what else!

 

Posted in Life and Stuff, Travelling | Tagged , , , , | Leave a comment

Please drop by and say hello!

Posted in Shop Update | Tagged , | Leave a comment